Last night I just found out that my fiance has a 0 sprem count. He has been diagnosed with klinefelter's syndrome so we knew this was a possibility, but I never thought it would actually happen. Now I feel like a horrible woman because I am considering not staying with him (our wedding is 2 months away). We have an appointment with a fertility specialist on Monday, but right now I am so confused I do not know what to do.
I am having a hard time even looking him in the eye because I do not want to say something that will hurt him, but I know ignoring him is not a good thing either. I love him more than I ever thought I could love another person, but what do I do now when my hope for a family is almost a gone?
just because he has fertility issue doesn't mean he can no longer get you pregnant. all he need is treatment and your moral support. now to give up and cancel a planned marriage just because of small issue is just so unfair on his part! just saying..
i agree with may-ann here! i don't think you love him enough to consider his flaws. the mere fact that you're in doubts of spending your life with him just because of small issue is a big insult..
if that's the case, i feel sad for your soon-to-be husband. it's not his fault that he's having this problem but it seems that he still has to suffer the
consequences.
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